Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
What's life?
I was Wondering for week or a two…. Just
thinking some random stuff, the thing that struck me was
“HOW COULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR LIFE
IN YOUR OWN WAY!!!?”
According to me if you ask... My life is
full of ‘STRUGGLES’. From generation to generation
it has been passed on. From my great great Grandpa to me…. We have seen only
struggles in order to achieve peace. ALSO,
peace doesn’t depend on your life, “IT’S THE INTEGRATED EXPERIENCE OF SOCIAL
LIFE “
But it can become “INTEGRATED EXPERIENCE OF
PERSONAL LIFE”. Have time? Come I’ll
explain to you if you are free!! Whoops we are going out of our topic.
Whenever I see my DAD and Granddad … I feel
like achieving things they wished they could have achieved, to have life they
wish they would have been living today, to change the root of our family they
wished they could have done.
BUT LIFE AIN'T FULL OF STRUGGLES YOU KNOW!!!!!!!!!!
At night of 10 pm while chatting with one
of my friend (who happens to live abroad) I just asked how she could define
life in her own poise
.
AND YOU KNOW WHAT THE RESPONSE I GOT FROM HER...MADE
ME SMILE AND SPEECHLESS!!!
LIFE is happiness that when she gets back
home from work and her nephew is there to open the door to hug her tight, to
give her relief and take away all the tiredness that she carries in her eyes.
Life is that happiness when her mom calls her from 7 seas apart and tells her
every day, she trusts her and that she’s the best child. Life is the thing that made her parents let go
of her at tender age to be on her own in a country to make her life better, THAT TRUST.
Life is when she receives text from her old
buds!
AND THEN THE PUNCHING LINE SHE GAVE (one
should learn to adapt this kind of attitude):
LIFE IS JUST AND MINE IS FINE WITH STRUGGLES AND TENSION IS STILL THE MOST AMAZING THING I VE EVER EXPERIENCED
HATS OFF CHICA YOU MADE MY DAY!!!!
Despite from the struggles you are going
through and the positive mindset you are maintaining…
SURE THIS IS ONE HELL OF MOTIVATION FOR
ME!!
The above write-up is written by M Karan Kaushal (one of my friend) and is based upon true story.
Tag :
Life
Motivation++
We often talk about motivational things,
whether it's motivational speeches, articles, visuals etc. These all are very
great and helpful things for all of us. But these things do not do anything in
reality as the conception of motivation that resides in our minds is fruitless.
We can classify this type of motivation into short term motivation. This type is
not going to yield any positive outcome.
So which type of motivation is practical? What
things are going to yield better results? Before getting started let us know
what motivation actually means?
Meaning of motivation: Motivation is an
energy induced by many factors in people to make commit to make an effort to achieve goals.
Factors! Yes these are the things that make
up motivation strong or weak. Factors are the main inductors of motivation.
Factors may include intensity of desires, rewards, type of goals etc. But the
force induced by these factors fades away with the time.
Achieving Big: Achieving something big is
itself a main motivation but to achieve it we too need a big motivation. The
motivation which is strong, long term, extreme, acute, intense, efficient is
only going to change the way the things happen.
So our primary motive must be to achieve strong
and intense motivation. Have look at the following factors that will help you
to gain the above in a lot:
1. The Will Power: Factor above all is “Will Power”. For example you get motivation
of waking early in the morning and for that you set up alarm, here the motivation
is induced but the goal to wake up early in the morning will not be achieved unless
we have will power to get up early morning.
2. Passion about the Goal: If we would be passionate about the goal then only the real
motivation will rise in our conscious mind. And we will be able to give our
best in everything.
3. Don’t limit your life: Don’t
limit your way of living. Don’t follow the crowd in a race of living better
life but be in race of making better lives for other.
4. Do something important: Always
have a thought in your brain about doing something important not for you only
but for the society too.
5. Think Different: To
get original motivation you need to be original.
6. Take Risks:
Don’t worry about the outcomes of the performance, just give your best in
everything. This is the best motivation of karma.
"Therefore,
without being attached to the fruits of activities, one should act
as a matter of duty, for by working without attachment one attains the
Supreme."
as a matter of duty, for by working without attachment one attains the
Supreme."
-- Shrimad
Bhagwat Gita
Tag :
Life
Being Optimist !
Optimism comes from the Latin word optimus, meaning "best," which describes how an optimistic person is always looking for the best in any situation and expecting good things to happen. Optimism is the tendency to believe, expect or hope that things will turn out well. Even if something bad happens an optimist always see best side of the case.
We can classify Human according to their thinking in two ways:
1.Optimist
2.Pessimist..."Pessimists" thinks the opposite way, however. They blame themselves for the bad things that happen in their lives and think that one mistake means more will inevitably come. Pessimists see positive events as flukes that are outside of their control.
But we don't have to become pessimist. Choosing a feeling of optimism is going to help the society. Optimistic thinking will lead to better future.
But Question arises that how to feel optimistic?
Firstly to feel Optimistic you need to be original i.e stop comparing yourself with others.
Second is that you have to be original in your thoughts...Do not ever criss cross others thoughts with your thinking.
After following these two steps we get 50% optimistic.
Next step involves imagination. By visualizing yourself as a cause not the effect of the event will help you cope the negative moments.
After this you have to find the best thing in everything. As It’s the natural human tendency to focus on what goes wrong in our lives rather than what has gone right. Counter this tendency by examining a negative event and finding the “bright side.” Research has shown this ability to be a key component of optimism, and it also helps with stress, depression, and your relationships with others. Try it for ten minutes a day for three weeks, and you’ll be surprised how much more optimistic you’ve become. And finally you have to be optimist in your action towards others which will definitely yield better results.
But wait a minute choosing to be an optimist may be dangerous as it has many pessimistic effect. When not handled carefully it may lead to negative traits like procrastination, laziness...etc. therefore you have to choose what's best for you. As in the end choice is always yours.
We can classify Human according to their thinking in two ways:
1.Optimist
2.Pessimist..."Pessimists" thinks the opposite way, however. They blame themselves for the bad things that happen in their lives and think that one mistake means more will inevitably come. Pessimists see positive events as flukes that are outside of their control.
" You cannot think Positive unless you Feel Optimistic."
---ParaZz
But we don't have to become pessimist. Choosing a feeling of optimism is going to help the society. Optimistic thinking will lead to better future.
But Question arises that how to feel optimistic?
Firstly to feel Optimistic you need to be original i.e stop comparing yourself with others.
Second is that you have to be original in your thoughts...Do not ever criss cross others thoughts with your thinking.
After following these two steps we get 50% optimistic.
Next step involves imagination. By visualizing yourself as a cause not the effect of the event will help you cope the negative moments.
After this you have to find the best thing in everything. As It’s the natural human tendency to focus on what goes wrong in our lives rather than what has gone right. Counter this tendency by examining a negative event and finding the “bright side.” Research has shown this ability to be a key component of optimism, and it also helps with stress, depression, and your relationships with others. Try it for ten minutes a day for three weeks, and you’ll be surprised how much more optimistic you’ve become. And finally you have to be optimist in your action towards others which will definitely yield better results.
But wait a minute choosing to be an optimist may be dangerous as it has many pessimistic effect. When not handled carefully it may lead to negative traits like procrastination, laziness...etc. therefore you have to choose what's best for you. As in the end choice is always yours.
----ParaZz
Tag :
Life
